Welcome to high school, where girls creep on your Snapchat best friends and guys only care about the size of your butt. We definitely make some “odd” combinations, but there is only so much weird we can manage. From overly clingy girls to overprotective guys, we have the 411 on how you should be acting with your bae.

To my gentlemen: Being a sprucing young female, I can tell you that an overly clingy dude is a don’t. Sure it may be fun at first, because the relationship is new and you are both so intrigued with each other, but give it a month and you’ll surely rethink your original obsessions. Girls aren’t the only ones who creep on your Snapchat; guys do it plenty, too. It is annoying and obnoxious if and when they get upset for who you have on your best friend list, mostly because it doesn’t mean anything. So to my men: chill out. I also think guys have lost a lot of “nards” on the confrontation subject. They avoid talking about issues; and when they finally agree to talk about something, it’s usually over text. Texting is like a shield guys hide behind and it irks me like none other. If you can hold a conversation with a girl in person, I give you loads of credit, because I know countless guys who are too afraid to, “Hang up and Hangout,”- Rory Hughs. Those are a few guy problems I have run into, here are a few of the female ones:

As a classy, adventurous, and dashing 😉 young man, I believe that girls aren’t starfish, and shouldn’t be so clingy. Relationships need a bit of space and trust in order to be lasting and meaningful. One, if you ask to go through my phone, you’re done. Get out. That ish isn’t your business. You need to trust me when I tell you I don’t have anything bad on my phone. Yeah, sometimes other girls hit me up, but hey, can you blame them? You need to be secure in the fact that I’m with you, and if I wanted to be with another bitty I would be. Don’t treat me like one of those crazy parents who have their kid on a leash. I am my own person. I don’t need you bossing me around, and making my decisions for me when I am fully capable of doing it myself. In response to Maddy, Snapchat has been ruining relationships since 2012. People over react about it when in reality, that stuff shouldn’t matter. So to my bossy, clingy girls, check yourself before you try to get with me.

The number one issue for both of us is simply immaturity. Girls who expect too much and guys who want too much. Boys and girls, who suffer from these chronic issues, calm down, because in a few years none of this matters.